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Some Nights…

All nights are not the same, all nights you don’t get the same cheery dreamy eyes or a blissful night sleep. Some nights you are just empty, drifting away into a sea of thoughts, lost in your memory searching for reasons of your existence and condemning yourself with all that you’ve got. We all have been there. Some of us are there tonight, some of us were yesterday and some will be there tomorrow. Whatever we feel in these nights is entirely not the truth but these nights help us realising various facets of our life.

In these nights as time passes by everything seems wrong in our lives. You dive into your mind and you find no “real” friends. You want to convince yourself that you are not alone. And in the process you end up texting all the important persons in your contact list. But this is not an ordinary night, is it? As not expected, no one replies. Even if a few do, no one even gets the basic hint of the pain you are in. - Read More -

Someone just blabbers away their day’s achievements while someone ends up giving you one word replies. So? After the futile attempt of establishing connection you get back to square one. No “real” Friends.

After this starts a series of flashbacks. You think about every rude thing anyone has said to you and with every hit your heart sinks a foot lower. You feel guilty, cheated and obviously all alone in this whole wide world. You think of the person that once said “Baby, I will never forget to tell you anything”, now doesn’t even care to tell she found her long lost love. The person who told “I am so addicted that I can’t live a minute without you” hasn’t spoken since the past three months. Someone who had said “Dude, You will be the first to see my girlfriend” has not yet informed even after their first anniversary. Friends have gone, people have changed. Family seems foreign, you don’t want to talk with anyone. Reason? “They won’t understand. They never do.” Without your realisation, your eyes get wet and remain so till you drift off to sleep.

These “Nights” teach us many things. They are basically the “Reality Checks” for our “Dreamy lives”. No one’s life is perfect. Yours is not too. People will change, situations will make them to. But life goes on, for basically two things: A few friends and Something that always remain constant, The Family. The ones that appear not understanding us remain right from the time we stand on our tiny little feet till the time we fall off them. And Yes Friends go, but a few of them stay. And our life is a hell lot better because of them. These “nights” make us feel “alone”, just to realise the importance of those few who stay…

Love your family,

And the friends who matter.

As they’re only ones who,

Will remember you after.

Life,Love,Friends,Family

Ravings of a Thankful Madman

 

It was Aug 13 2012, 10:30 pm. I was lying in my bed, unable to lift even my head(damn, that sounded poetic). Doctors  advised me not to stay in front of a screen for a long time as I’ve just had a surgery and the anaesthesia is not completely out of my system yet. With much reluctance, I’d had to agree. I was kinda heartbroken because I wouldn’t have been able to write for the first b’day celebration of TWH, a project that had become the sole reason for my meaningless existence for quite a period. But then, as I tried (and failed again) to lift my hospitalized ass from my bed, a montage of events from the 6th of august,2011 to the present day started to unfold before my eyes and I realized that I didn’t need to follow every single thing doctors told me to do and write something for the occasion. Hell, I owed thewackyheads that much and more:-D

 

Aug 6, 2011 was when it all started. It was just another boring and depressing afternoons after my lacklustre JEE result. I was whiling away my time on facebook, when a message from a relatively new friend of mine, Dibya, made me open my eyes. Naah, that would be an understatement. That message gave me a reason to live again. It said something like, “Do you want to write again?” - Read More -

 

I must mention, we were involved in an amateur project named r3treat2 together earlier, but for some unexplicable reason, it didn’t take off. But I did want to write again. As Dibya explained to me what and how TWH would function, all my doubts gradually dissolved and all that was left was pure enthusiasm and a sincere, heartfelt thankfulness to him. Then I got another pleasant suprise. I was asked to be the co-admin for the site. All the more reason to work hard for the success.

For a guy like me, this was an opportunity to express what “psychlones” I had, but could never define. Coming to TWH was like homecoming, everyone UNDERSTOOD everyone, because we’re kindred souls after all. TWH has not been just another blog where one gloats, whines, moans… It has been a platform where ideas developed, thoughts were discussed, put to action and evoked positive actions and reactions, I daresay. And I might be exaggerating, but the entire TWH roster might agree with me here.

TWH was initially a team of 4 admins and 6 writers. Today, we stand 6 admins and 12 authors strong. Initially, we were ranked over a hundred million in alexa ranks. An year of wackyness, six hosts, four themes and seven overhauls later, we have improved by more than seventy eight million ranks. This is not boasting; not some corporate snob’s annual appraisal of a company’s performance. This is the effort of around eighty outstanding posts by the brilliant young authors at TWH who’ve worked their asses off while their peers were having fun as they loafed around, rolled around in their beds, chased gals all over the face of our green earth, etc etc. Dare I say, we evoked mixed reactions. Some admired us for doing something different and creative, while some mocked us for aging prematurely. There have been many bends and turns during the journey, but that’s what made this all a great pleasure for us.

Not one of us writes for money. We only write for the pleasure of writing. We write to make the voice of youth heard. And that’s what makes TWH a great place, one big family. After one year, I still feel the same surge of energy that I felt on my very first day for writing a new post for TWH. It’s not a chore, it’s a pleasure. And I know, it will always be the same way. I express my heartfelt thanks to everyone who has been a part of thewackyheads, the past or present. Keep up the good work guys, we still have a lot of work to do.

 

~Thank You~

A full year………

This isn’t an intellectual post, a passage of fun witty ideas, or a wacky mind set on doing somersaults with words. This is a voice, of realization, that clouds my mind today, not only me, but to everyone who has scribbled something or the other here in this website, everyone who have been with us since the day we started this journey, since the day we were born to the world. Its not that we didn’t write at first, but our writings were meaningless pieces of paper which eventually found themselves in the dustbin. This became our spotlight, showed us to the world, made us visible in this entire sea of humanity. This made us stand out, this became our identity. This made us voice our thoughts, speak what would go unspoken, lost in the sands of time.

A full year has gone by, full 365 days, and now when I look back in time, i laugh to myself. This wasn’t a business idea, nor a planned social event. This occurred as a fleeting thought to the ways of procrastination in the struggling periods of education. Somehow, I know not how, out of the billion ideas that crossed our minds that day, - Read More -

we stuck to this, and here we are today. Maybe it was God who led us here, or maybe the brain cells just played a cheeky probability game. But nevertheless, we are happy with the outcome.

When we started, a year back, we were 4 crazy fellows, and now many crazier people have joined us in our bumpy ride. We don’t do this for any personal gain, or anything as such, but only because it gives a sense of contentment. That awesome feeling when someone likes what you have written, or a way better writer compliments you for your work is worth all the trouble.

We are all thankful to you, the readers, who appreciate our works and that’s what keeps us driving forward. Thank you, for being crazy enough, to bear us for the entire year. We will grow crazier in the years to come, we warn you that. Because if you’re not crazy enough, then life’s not worth living. There’s only one life to live!

So just enjoy the ride,

squandering your life instead,

Live, Like,  Love,

Be a Wacky Head! \m/

~d Hated ‘Luve Story’~

Discretionary Disclaimer:

The characters, places, events depicted in this Hated ‘Luve Story’ is purely fictional which is based on non fictional incidences & thoughts. Any resemblance to any such characters, places, events, fantasized or desired relationships has to be purely coincidental.

As such nothing censored or even adult explicit content is incorporated or referred while scripting this ‘story’; so simply recommending & advising the readers to just fall in ‘Luve with words’ instead of just struggling to find & relate to any hidden meaning behind the ‘words’.

~episOde One~

Unlike the other articulate creations; experimenting on the mature & sensitive subject matter; unusual yet spurring attempt not merely trying to post mortem the ‘Luve stories’; nor even ‘adopting’ one for the sake of giving birth to the hated ‘Luve Story’; but also making fruitful attempts for showcasing the other side as well. Revolving & striking thoughts of those cherished days in past, with those scripts of the stereotyped cinemas & movies & even in practical real life incidences; which only had a charming, charismatic hero, who seemed to struggle with the obstacles & hurdles conspired by the devilish villain only to meet the sxy heroine & live happily ever after. - Read More -

Gone are the fairytale & dreamland stories from storybooks of ‘Cinderella’; ‘Aladdin & Jasmine’; kingdoms & palaces of princess; falling in ‘Luve’ with prince charming riding on a horse; & novels with pink & red colored & also flowered with hearts or even the Luve chase & fight between the classics Tom & Jerry. Even the so called romantic & ‘Luve stories’ in recent times, have been of such instances & inspirations; which are proudly inspired, based (stolen ideas from international classics, dubbed, stretched with unnecessary sequels, remakes). Needless to cite the names of classic heartthrob heroes & dreamgirl heroines who literally hypnotized & have acclaimed to revitalize & relive the Luve scenes with intensity & passionate emotions & feelings.

Not critically pin pointing or even criticizing the cinemas, theaters for the sake of scripted stories based upon the conventionally accepted or rather blindly followed scripts of framed ‘Luve Stories’; influential enough to propagate the minds of those who have been mislead or sidelined with no directions in their ‘Luve Lives’.

So getting back on the track of ‘Luve story’; having fictionally designed the characters to suite the theme & storyline as well; scripting further this yet another articulate creation; after a couple of weeks of thorough investigation & observation (as much instances & words of experience), with yet unusually usual thought that most of us undoubtedly have been aspiring to be a part & live in & experience at least once; such ‘relationship’ which would be vibrant & lucrative to lure others & very much make jealous of.

With over 22 days of thoughtful conceptualizing; inspired, dedicated & depicted to the ones who have hated ‘Luve stories’ (mostly of others); & of bitter instances in remembrance of unsuccessful or just unattempted ‘Luve stories’. Firstly creating the characters, events, places & most importantly a special lead character ‘Cupid’ equipped & armored with ample stock of arrows throughout in this story; until such arrows bleed & break the hearts, even before pulsing & beating of the innocent heart for that ‘someone very special’.

The trends, angles, lifecycles of most of the ‘Luve stories’; be it naturally & heavenly destined or just artificially sensed & forced by either of the Luverz; have been exploring into ‘out of the track’ Luve triangles (or any other geometrical shape like a square, circle etc), live in relations (to check out the feasibility & compatibility), contractual marriages (simply registering & signing the couple of documents with witness), extra affairs for tempting desserts; short or long distance relationships (connected through gadgets & devices), crushes on almost every ‘first sight’ of a gal; & such endless options of trying several different dishes on the menu card.

For most of us out there, Luve has been ought to be like honey coated & sugar filled word; but for some of the odds out there; unfortunately Luve has been merely a blindfold tool; which is a namesake game & its rules vest upon the sx driven maniacs which proves to squeeze out the veins from the ‘innocent hearts’. Reliving & replaying the glimpses of that ‘someone very special one’ in dreams, day dreams; every moment of breath, only to find a ray of hope for some positive vibes & signals. In less than a decade’s time, Luve has immensely widespread beyond genders, crossing boundaries & limits (personal space, societal obligations, geographical & other strata’s) to endanger the human life cycle & such complex traditional phenomena’s.

Unusually merely changing or conveniently & frequently changing the current relationship status; at times for attracting others concern or simply to seek attention on networking sites, have just become a status quo; in other sense, relationships have even gained status on networking with friends, relatives & even more & beyond!!. So without intruding much into the privacy & confidentiality of the relationships & their status; just to safeguard the interests of the ‘so called or just would be turned into relationships’.

Fortunately or unfortunately &/or intentionally or unintentionally & considering any other repercussions; ‘Luve stories’ are destined, conspired & blessed with fruitful results sooner or later. Not most of the ‘Luve stories’ that the ‘Cupid’ has scripted & witnessed have happy endings; blissful journey or simply ‘happily lived ever after’ scenes.

To be Continued….

Marriage: Love? Arranged? Does it really matter??

Everyone, at some point of time, needs to settle down, making a family, having some kids and a loving life partner. Well, I’m speaking from a broader point of view, there may be a few exceptions where guys sworn to celibacy wont budge their vows till their last breath. But those cases are one in a million. So now returning back to the topic. Every sheet of a relationship is woven out of strands of trust, faith, love and responsibility. Without any of these the sheet tears apart at some point of time. Its said by our elders that ”Everything that happens is already jotted down by destiny, no one has a say about it.” They also say ”Couples are paired in heaven and united on earth”. If you take these statements seriously you will come to the same conclusion as I came to: “God doesn’t give a rat’s ass on the way you marry as long as you’re together.


Let me ask you something. Suppose you haven’t studied for your test well. You may fail also but the driver of your car makes you reach late for the test and you miss it. Whom would you blame? Even though you had chances of failing your full vengeance will be on the driver. If you had taken the test and then failed then you would be less angry as you knew it was your fault. This is why I feel love marriage is better, if it doesn’t work you can blame yourself not anyone else for pushing you in it.

Nothing in this world is absolute, no machine is fully efficient, no gas is ideal, no human is unflawed and no marriage is perfect. They say most divorces occur in love marriages. Yes, because - Read More -

when the married couple gets in an argument, the family helps only in sabotaging the relationship. But in an arranged marriage the whole family pours down essential morals on the couple that the couple forget what their argument was.

Love marriages symbolize freedom. You know the person beforehand, her likes, dislikes, everything. Your honeymoon doesn’t pass chit-chatting about each other’s hobbies but doing much better things instead ;) . You have your romantic moments throughout your life. You have the awesome feeling of proposals, rejection, the first date, the walks on the beach, the moments in the rain, the first kiss and the first craving sex. You would miss all of these in an arranged marriage. In it you have each other for granted, you will love her, you will live with her, you have no choice. Yes, there would be less fights, almost no threats of a divorce but there will be no certainty of time it will take to know each other well, less say, fall in love.

But remember, as long as you love each other, are faithful, and trust each other, nothing can tear you apart. It doesn’t matter how you marry if you are happy with your soul mate. May peace be with you :)

Love is all i want from you,

Care is all i need,

I want all your attention,

Anytime, anyhow, anywhere.

And Baby, I swear,

I will hold you forever,

Till the last breath escapes me,

Till the last sun sets,

Till death separates us,

And then it regrets.

Don’t worry, I wont leave you,

I will follow you on and on,

Only You’ll be in my heart,

Till infinity and beyond..

Signing off till the next post, CrazyBrains :)

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